Many men today associate polite manners too old-fashioned or awkward. Are you one of them? If so, you’re wrong! Etiquette used to be and still is one of the most important lessons a man can learn to set him up for success. Have you ever asked yourself how to define etiquette and what etiquette means for a modern gentleman? Well, here is a practical advice from Jakub Abraham – the etiquette coach.
Who is Jakub?
- Jakub is a consultant, lecturer or if you want a coach in the field of social etiquette, communication and image. He helps the gentlemen to behave politely, look charming and express themselves clearly. He is also a royalist and he deals with royal etiquette – commentary and also its history.
Giving that we are getting closer to Valentine’s Day, how a man should dress on this special day?
- It will probably be a surprise, but Jakub is not a big fan of jogging suits. He advises men to forget about the ‘comfort’ at least on this day and wear something elegant. Your sweethearts will definitely appreciate it. For some of you it could be a tuxedo, for others a jacket and a pair of trousers or a shirt with a vest. It depends on where you plan to spend Valentine’s Day.
VALENTINE’S DAY TIPS:
How does a man should behave during a romantic dinner in a restaurant.
- How to behave in a restaurant? Well, it’s one of the most difficult disciplines of etiquette. Maybe you’ll say, what’s so hard about it? If we want to look authentic, not stiff or tense, you should learn something about it before. But let’s start from the beginning. It’s good to know the taste of your partner so that you know which restaurant you can take her to. Make sure to book your table in advance. The man enters the restaurant first. In a better restaurant, the waiter will help you with a coat, otherwise it will be you. It’s a holiday of the loved ones, so let’s not forget that, gentlemen. You have to pay enough attention to your half and therefore you should put the phone down and turn off the ringtone. Don’t criticize the restaurant staff in any case in front of the woman, if necessary you will solve the problem discreetly. You will pleasantly surprise your partner even if you are confident with the cutlery manners, or you will become acquainted with the offer of wines or bubbles in advance.
How does a man should behave during a romantic dinner at home?
- It depends on whether the man is also a chef or if he rather orders food at home to make sure all is well-cooked. We know very well that the men who are in the kitchen have more chance to win. In both cases, you should take a particular care about the dining preparation and tablecloths. Let’s not forget the bouquet, candles and a small live flower on the table. But be careful not to overdo the decoration on the table – less is more. And this is because it may prevent you from looking at each other. Whether we are in a restaurant or at home. Let’s forget about the loud speeches during consumption, but also after it.
What should a man give his partner for Valentine’s Day?
- Gifts for women are a frequently discussed issue. If you want to avoid such classic answers as flowers, a box of chocolate or jewelry, think about what will make your partner happy. Don’t be afraid of giving her little things. Recession gifts tend to be very popular and personal and it is said that jewelry you will never be a bad idea. If you don’t know her style, choose something simple. Experience gifts are just as popular. What should never miss on Valentine’s Day is definitely her favorite flower bouquet. After all, it’s only you who knows what your partner will appreciate more – something more symbolic or something that will bring you to look deeper in your pocket …
Is there any kind of etiquette when popping the question? If so, tell us more about it.
- It is very good to plan in advance and set some points. Do not depend on the plan too much and get ready to improvise. Think about where you want your marriage proposal to take place. Today we have so many unlimited possibilities. Base on the specific situation. If you imagine your proposal to be traditionally romantic, adapt your clothing to it and get ready. If it will be somewhere in the nature, in more demanding conditions you will again analyze all the possibilities so that you are prepared for everything. If you put all your effort to be as original as possible, it can easily happen that you just complicate the whole situation and get tangled up in your own idea. So, if you hesitate, get a piece of good advice from an expert. He/She will evaluate all the pros and cons and prepare the most beautiful engagements without any risks of increasing unnecessary grey hair.
If you would ever need more tips on how to become a gentleman, do not hesitate to contact Jakub:
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